7-Second Thoughts November 7, 2023

The Ghost Whisperer

We’re always girding ourselves for rejection, when we should be preparing ourselves for no response at all – a.k.a. “getting ghosted”

Because let’s face it, rejection is actually a form of generosity.

As much as it hurts, it also provides:



And peace of mind.

See if this helps:

Before you press SEND in that next email:

Ask yourself:

Have I offered enough

To give myself peace of mind

That I said what I needed to say

With as much clarity as possible

So that my recipient knows

How to respond

With minimal effort.

After you press send:

Try wishing your recipient well in their business, their personal safety, and happiness

And ask yourself:

Is it possible

In this moment

To let go?

I’m here,


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